Executive Director; Director of Graduate Training; Senior Staff Therapist; Supervisor

Benet is The Institute for Human Identity’s Executive Director. He is extensively trained and experienced in Multicultural Counseling, LGBTQ issues, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy (REBT), and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Educated in London, with a BA Honors in History, Benet worked for 15 years in London, Paris, and New York and was formerly the president of an international art company based in London and New York, and a member of the Institute of Directors.

He graduated Columbia University with a Master of Arts in Psychological Counseling (M.A.) and a Master of Education in Psychology (Ed.M.).  He holds an Advanced Certificate in Clinical Practice from New York University, Postgraduate Certificate in Counseling from the Australian College of Applied Psychology and Certificate in Counseling from City College, London. 

Benet is an Adjunct Professor at New York University and Brooklyn College.

Benet is a Member of the American Psychological Association and the British Association of Counseling Professionals.



Associate Director; Senior Staff Therapist; Supervisor

Tara Lombardo is the Associate Director and Staff Therapist at the Institute for Human Identity.  Her practice at IHI includes working from a Psychodynamic and Existential perspective with adults within the LGBTQ community. She graduated from Brooklyn College with a M.A. in Mental Health Counseling and was the recipient of the Department of Psychology's Rasha Shamoon Memorial Scholarship. Ms. Lombardo also received an M.A. from New York University's Gallatin School for Individualized Study in 2006 and a B.S. in Psychology from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign in 2001. She ran a quarterly panel discussion on issues related to the lesbian community in New York City from 2008 to 2010.  



Coordinator of Supervision; Clinical Coordinator; Senior Staff Therapist; Supervisor

Robert McVey is Clinical Coordinator and a Senior Staff Therapist at IHI, with a Certificate in Field Instruction.  In 2014 he was awarded a fellowship in psychoanalysis from the NYU School of Medicine.  He joined IHI as a Staff Therapist in June, 2003.  Robert maintains a private practice in Manhattan.   He was educated at Sarah Lawrence College, Harvard University, and New York University.  Robert is also an author, and his book of short stories was nominated for a Lambda Award.  His new novel is ready for publication. 



Senior Staff Therapist; Supervisor; Diplomate in Clinical Social Work; Reiki Master

Judy holds a B.A. in Sociology from Hofstra University and a Masters in Social Work from Smith College. She has worked in the field of mental health for over thirty years.  She helped to found three different LGBTQ mental health centers. At IHI, Judy is a former Executive Director, Associate Director, and Clinical/Personnel Coordinators.  She is also a senior psychotherapist and supervisor with the Institute for Personal Growth in NJ. Judy maintains a private practice in NYC. She has many national and state certifications as well as completing training in specialty areas enhancing and expanding her repertoire of clinical skills.  These include Imago Relationship Therapy, Hypnosis, EMDR, EFT, CBT, Mediation and Arbitration. Along with having completed the class work requirement, she continues with on-going clinical hours and supervision of a training program to become a nationally certified sex therapist. 

Judy completed the Reiki Master program offered by the Center of Living Light and has been elevated to Reiki Master. As a political activist, Judy has been involved in causes close to her heart and for the peaceful welfare of all beings and society.  She also is a long-term volunteer for many non-profit and social justice organizations.  Judy does a wide selection of volunteer ushering in theater arts.    



Senior Staff Therapist; Supervisor

Russell received his B.A. from Columbia in Political Science and his Master's in Social Work from Hunter College. Russell is a Social Work Supervisor and former Program Director for the New York State Office of Mental Health. He also has formerly worked as a legislative aide for a United States Senator in Washington and as a representative to the New York State Pride Agenda, lobbying for LGBT program funding and equal rights.

Russell was a member of the IHI Steering Committee from 2002-2009, as well as the former Director of the Student Intern Program. He has also published articles in clinical journals relating to individual and group therapies. In recent years he has lectured at college seminars on pre-Stonewall LGBT history. He has supervised social work graduate interns from Columbia, Fordham, Yeshiva, Adelphi, Hunter, and New York University. Modalities practiced: Individual, group, couples, and vocational.




Director of Professional Development; Supervisor

Joshua Yoselovsky is the Director of Professional Development at IHI Therapy Center. After completing his B.A. in Judaic Studies from CUNY Queens College, Joshua went on to pursue his Master’s Degree in clinical social work, which he received from Fordham University’s Graduate School of Social Service. Joshua has been with IHI since September 2011, and three of his years there were spent working as a staff therapist. Joshua also works for the HASA Training Academy at Fordham University where he facilitates training seminars and professional development workshops for employees of the HIV/AIDS Service Administration of New York City. Joshua is psychodynamically and relationally oriented in his approach to psychotherapy, and his areas of focus include depression, anxiety, gender and sexual identity, and HIV/AIDS.



Staff Therapist

Tony has been a Staff Therapist at the Institute for Human Identity since June 2014. He takes a humanistic approach to therapy, believing that a warm, genuine and empathetic relationship between himself and a client is key to emotional growth and healing. Only the client knows what is best for them and Tony sees his role as partnering with the client in the uncovering of that inner wisdom.

Tony received his masters’ degree in clinical social work at the University of Georgia. In addition, he has received 60 hours of childhood sexual and emotional trauma training at the Manhattan Institute for Psychoanalysis in New York; LGBTQ Competency Training at IHI; Cultural Diversity, Substance Abuse, and High Risk Sexual Behavior Reduction training at Positive Impact in Atlanta, Georgia; and 216 hours of Spiritual Counselor training and 450 hours of Interspiritual Ministry Training at One Spirit Learning Alliance in New York. Tony in an ordained Interspiritual Minister and holds a BA in Theater from the Minnesota State University.



Staff Therapist

Shari obtained a BA from Syracuse University in Social Work with a minor in Coaching prior to earning her Master of Social Work degree from Stony Brook University. During the time period between obtaining degrees Shari held a position as a Local Development Officer in Manchester England followed by a year in California coaching at Claremont McKenna Consortium.                         

Shari’s expertise include Depression, Anxiety, Gender and Sexuality with a focus on the LGBTQ community, Relational Difficulties & Bereavement. Shari integrates psychodynamic & relational approaches towards eliciting honesty & acceptance within the therapeutic relationship, in order to foster growth. It is Shari’s belief that within the safe space she creates attainment of goals can be achieved.



Staff Therapist; Supervisor

Kyle is a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) practicing in New York City.

Before embarking on his counseling career, Kyle taught English language to professionals in Chile and Argentina. He then graduated from Teachers College, Columbia University with a Master of Education (M.Ed.) in Psychological Counseling and a Master of Arts (M.A.) in Psychology. He holds his Bachelor of Arts (B.A.) in Psychology from Washington University in St. Louis. Upon finishing his graduate studies, Kyle provided mental health services at Callen-Lorde Community Health Center, New York's renowned center for LGBTQ healthcare.

Kyle is trained in Psychodynamic Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). He is also interested in the application of Positive Psychology in his work to maximize resilience and personal strengths. In a relaxed, but focused style, Kyle brings compassion, authenticity, and insight to his work to help his clients live happier, more fulfilling lives. 



Staff Therapist; Intern Coordinator

Kristy earned her B.A. in Psychology from Hunter College and her M.A. in Mental Health Counseling from Brooklyn College. Kristy strives to provide a therapeutic environment where her clients feel not only safe and non-judged but also truly seen and truly heard. She believes that securing a solid, trusting and genuine bond between therapist and client is of utmost importance before any real therapy can begin. She works collaboratively with clients to help them understand themselves more deeply and evoke meaning in their challenges so that they can ultimately live their lives more fully and authentically.

Kristy has experience working with clients with a wide range of difficulties and is well versed in various theories of psychotherapy. She considers herself a genuinely integrative therapist, often adjusting her style to fit each client and their unique and changing needs. She provides the support and encouragement needed for clients to begin taking steps outside of their comfort zone and toward facilitating the changes that they wish to see in their lives.

Kristy has experience working with individuals of many various sexual and gender identifications and with clients who practice nontraditional relationship styles (such as polyamory and ethical non-monogamy). In addition to her work with clients, Kristy teaches psychology courses as an Adjunct Professor at Brooklyn College. 


Staff Therapist

Mia Ruth is a Staff Therapist at IHI and is deeply committed to helping individuals and couples understand how their feelings, thoughts, and experiences impact their perceptions of their lives, selves, and relationships.

Mia holds a Master of Arts degree in Counseling for Mental Health and Wellness from New York University and a Bachelor of Arts degree in American Studies with a concentration in Cinema and Media Studies from Carleton College in Northfield, MN. She is a member of the American Counseling Association and the New York Mental Health Counselors Association.

Mia is trained and experienced in several therapeutic modalities, including Psychodynamic Therapy and Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT). Areas of particular interest include gender and sexuality issues, depression, anxiety, self acceptance, and adolescent/early adulthood struggles.



Staff Therapist

JJ earned a B.S. in Psychology from the University of Mary Washington. She went on to earn her M.A. in Mental Health Counseling from Brooklyn College where she received the Department of Psychology's Rasha Shamoon Memorial Scholarship. JJ addresses the unique needs of each client with an integrative approach that draws from psychodynamic, experiential and cognitive behavioral frameworks. She aims to provide a collaborative, engaging and supportive environment in which individuals can gain insight, explore new ways of being, and achieve greater flexibility in the face of life's challenges.



Staff Therapist

Emma graduated with Honors from The Silberman School for Social Work at Hunter College with a Masters in Social Work, after completing her Bachelor of Arts degree at Smith College with a concentration in the Study of Women and Gender.  Emma is also a member of the National Association of Social Workers.

Emma uses an eclectic approach, incorporating psychodynamic and behavioral therapies to enable her clients to develop deeper understandings of themselves, and then use this understanding to develop more effective methods to reach their goals. A strong empathic therapeutic relationship is key to this work and Emma works to develop a unique, honest, accepting, and caring relationship with each client. 

Emma enjoys working with adults and couples and has a strong interest in concerns related to gender and sexuality, self-acceptance, anxiety, and relationships.



Staff Therapist

Huong earned her M.A. in Mental Health Counseling from Brooklyn College and her B.S. in Psychology from the University of Central Florida. Before pursuing her Master's degree, Huong worked at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy as the Program Manager of their Trauma Studies Center. She also participated in a variety of trainings offered at ICP, relating to trauma and LGBTQ. Huong practices with a humanistic and affirmative approach that integrates psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral interventions depending on the individual needs of her clients. She is warm and attentive to the differing and complex ways her clients respond to their environment. She aims to create a safe space for clients that encourages acceptance, curiosity, compassion, and personal growth.



Staff Therapist

Megan received her M.A. in Counseling for Mental Health and Wellness from New York University.  With interests in both Buddhist philosophy and psychoanalytic theory, Megan attempts to understand her client’s internal belief system as well as ways to foster self-compassion in order to maximize acceptance of all aspects of self.  Special interests include spirituality, perfectionism, couples counseling, meditation and mindfulness, 12-Step Recovery and Positive Psychology.  




Staff Therapist

Jeff graduated from Teachers College, Columbia University with a Master of Education and Master of Arts in Psychological Counseling. His areas of expertise include depression, anxiety, existential concerns, LGBTQ issues, multicultural counseling, bilingual counseling (Spanish), couples counseling, and substance use.

Before attending graduate school, Jeff received a Bachelor of Arts with Honors in economics and philosophy from the University of Arizona. After college he spent three years backpacking in the Americas, Asia, Europe, and Africa as a freelance writer and active member of During part of this time he was in Latin America, where he took intensive Spanish courses, lived with a host family, and learned to speak fluently in Spanish. 



Staff Therapist

Jonathan Kutnick earned his B.A. in Psychology from Emory University. He went on to pursue his Master’s Degree in clinical social work, which he received from Fordham University’s Graduate School of Social Service. Jonathan also works for the HASA Training Academy at Fordham University where he facilitates training seminars and professional development workshops for employees of the HIV/AIDS Service Administration of New York City. Jonathan is psychodynamically oriented in his approach. His areas of focus include depression, anxiety, gender and sexual identity, codependency and relationship issues.



Staff Therapist

Joseph Hovey, LMSW, is a passionate group and individual psychotherapist. He studied human development, with a focus on mental health and personality, at the University of Chicago, clinical social work at Smith College, and trauma and substance use treatment at the Seattle VA, during a post-graduate fellowship. Through these studies, and years of experience in hospitals, schools, and outpatient clinics, Mr. Hovey has developed a firm appreciation for the healing power of empathetic, responsive and collaborative relationships; he recognizes that therapy offers a unique environment for such a relationship.

Mr. Hovey grounds his understanding of personal growth and change in contemporary psychodynamic theory—in part, focusing on how the past plays out in the present, alongside a thoughtful, curious, and non-judgmental therapist. Adapting to the needs and preferences of his patients, Mr. Hovey also integrates other modalities, including cognitive-behavioral, mindfulness-informed, and acceptance and commitment therapies. Finally, Mr. Hovey has special training and interest in interpersonal group therapy and harm-reduction substance use treatment. Mr. Hovey is an active member of the following professional organizations: AGPA, NASW, NYSSCSW, and AAPCSW.


Alex Brousset (M.A., LMFT)

Staff Therapist

Alex began working on his BA in Psychology at UNC - Chapel Hill and finished at Northeastern University in Boston. He received his MA in Counseling Psychology with a concentration in Community Mental health at The California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS) while living in San Francisco.

He has been working in the field of HIV, substance use and mental health for over a decade. Primarily working in community health centers and non profit organizations, Alex has had the honor of providing mental health services to homeless men and women, adults who are actively using substances and unsure of what changes they would like to make, if any, and with homeless youth who are struggling with a severe mental illness.

Through his counseling and clinical work, he has learned to work from a Harm Reduction perspective and will utilize Motivational Interviewing to help build rapport while holding a sex positive and non-judgmental space. Self Psychology is the theoretical framework he uses to better understand the concerns at hand and incorporates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy skills and basic mindfulness meditation as needed. 

Alex is a bilingual Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who specializes in working with substance use & mis-use, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, sexual identity, coming out, gender identity & transition, HIV & Hep C related issues, relationship issues, grief and loss, sexual difficulties, migration issues and adapting to a new country with a sensitivity to diverse cultural and spiritual backgrounds. In addition he also specializes in working with people who believe in non traditional sexual relationships and expressions.